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Anonymous Asked: "okay so i really like this guy, who is quite older than me. it's about a 4year difference. a lot of people do not understand how i could even think about being with someone so much older. it is hard talking to my friends about it. but i fell for him hard. and like he just shipped out into the army&when he gets back we were talking about getting together. but i know my friends will be upset with me because he is older, i just don't know what to do. i care deeply for him&would do absolutely anything for him, but then my friends will stop talking to me really. i don't know if i should date him or attempt a friendship with him. please help..i am so confused."

Answer:

It depends on the age difference. As in, how old you are and how old he is. If you’re under age, it is a VERY slippery slope. It could be dangerous and illegal for him to have a relationship with you. If that’s the case, then I’d say no, definitely do not go for it. You also need to look at if you are both of legal age, but you can’t go out (as in you’re 18 and he’s over 21, if you live in America) he may go out to bars and clubs and it might cause tension in your relationship. Ultimately its your decision, nobody can make you choose what you want to do.

♡ - Morgan

♥ / Sun May 22nd, 2011 ≡ reblog

Anonymous Asked: "so there's a guy who's had this mad crush on me for about 3 years now. i've tried to explain to him that i dont feel that way about him , but i've never done it straight out ( telling him that it'll never happen ) because we're friends and i don't wanna hurt his feelings. Instead i just drop hints by telling him about boys i like or my boyfriends. It's probably hurting him more , but i just dont wanna see his face when i tell him that i'll never have more then friend feelings for him.
im in love with another boy and he knows this , but he never changes his feelings for me , not even when i tell him an indetail account of what i've done with another boy. it's starting to really get to me , and get really annoying , because he always talks to me on facebook and msn , and i'l go offline , but then he'll just email me. i really don't know what to do cuz i don't wanna hurt him /:"

Answer:

Be honest with him, it’ll be the nicest thing you’ll ever do for him. Plus your blunt honesty will make him realise that you’re just not into him.

♡ - Morgan

♥ / Sun May 22nd, 2011 ≡ reblog

Anonymous Asked: "hi so i need help. i really, really like this boy. except he lives in the uk and i live in america. we've talk to each other everyday via webcam for, like, everyday for almost 2 years (i even added him on facebook lol). i'm a teen and he's a teen too, and i can tell he likes me but i'm really skeptical about dating him because i've always thought internet dating was pathetic. but i really do like him, and we always tell each other "i love you" and stuff ;) but the only thing is it seems just pathetic to date someone on the internet. i mean, i want to meet him one day, but think about what my parents would think... i'm inlove with some guy i met on the internet. or my friends would think i'm weird and i probably have hardcore cyber sex (lol) with him or something. so should i date him and take this serious? thank you :)"

Answer:

Liz, Zach and I have all had long distance relationships. Liz is in one right now and from what I can see, it’s going amazingly well. Distance isn’t something to be scared of, it’s something to overcome. If you can overcome the hardship of not seeing each other every day, and ignore what people think of what YOU are doing, then you’ll do fine. If you genuinely care for him and you can both commit to the relationship, I say go for it. :)

♡ - Morgan

♥ / Sun May 22nd, 2011 ≡ reblog

Anonymous Asked: "firstly i love that you guys have done a tumblr like this, its so thoughtful and lovely!
and secondly.... why would a boy who has a girlfriend, lead another girl on, 'tune' her, make her feel really happy etc, cheat on their girlfriend with her, then when the girl has fallen for him he has no interest in her? and how could this girl stop thinking of this boy and move on? >____<"

Answer:

Because guys like that want to have their cake and to eat it too. Honestly, wash your hands of him.

♡ - Morgan

♥ / Sun May 22nd, 2011 ≡ reblog

Anonymous Asked: "hey. so i think i might be depressed. theres all this shit happening in my life, my sister died, my dad moved to a different CONTINENT i have this disease that takes away my color. and i go to a school where my best friend is myself. i dont know what to do. im so fucked up. help?"

Answer:

I think you need to be postive. I think that you need to focus on the fact that you’re alive, and that your sister isn’t. She would want you to live your life for the both of them. I’m sorry about your dad, and your disease, but be positive. Think about the amazing things that are going to happen if you always do your best and realise that we can’t solve a problem by using the same method of thinking we use to create them.

♡ - Morgan

♥ / Sat May 21st, 2011 ≡ reblog

Anonymous Asked: "I've been seeing my bf for about 3 months now and i usually only get to see him like 1 or 3 times a week max. and i haven't seen him it's been almost 2 weeks. and he said '' i don't miss you as much, it doesn't bother me. I couldn't stand not seeing you before.'' Does that mean it's probably coming to an end?"

Answer:

Ohh, dump his ass asap.

♡ - Morgan

♥ 1 Notes / Fri May 13th, 2011 ≡ reblog