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Anonymous Asked: "okay so i really like this guy, who is quite older than me. it's about a 4year difference. a lot of people do not understand how i could even think about being with someone so much older. it is hard talking to my friends about it. but i fell for him hard. and like he just shipped out into the army&when he gets back we were talking about getting together. but i know my friends will be upset with me because he is older, i just don't know what to do. i care deeply for him&would do absolutely anything for him, but then my friends will stop talking to me really. i don't know if i should date him or attempt a friendship with him. please help..i am so confused."
Answer:
Answer:
It depends on the age difference. As in, how old you are and how old he is. If you’re under age, it is a VERY slippery slope. It could be dangerous and illegal for him to have a relationship with you. If that’s the case, then I’d say no, definitely do not go for it. You also need to look at if you are both of legal age, but you can’t go out (as in you’re 18 and he’s over 21, if you live in America) he may go out to bars and clubs and it might cause tension in your relationship. Ultimately its your decision, nobody can make you choose what you want to do.
♡ - Morgan
